Preface |
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Exploring the Dilemma of Fracture and Forgiveness through Story |
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1 | (13) |
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The Sabotaged Forgiveness Exchange |
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2 | (4) |
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The Stalled Forgiveness Exchange |
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6 | (1) |
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The Successful Forgiveness Exchange |
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7 | (2) |
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The Stories and Finishing Unfinished Business |
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9 | (3) |
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12 | (2) |
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Interpersonal and Intrapsychic Models of Forgiveness |
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14 | (9) |
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The Emergence of the Intrapsychic Model |
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17 | (3) |
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20 | (3) |
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A Theology of Being Human |
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23 | (15) |
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Imago Dei: Made in God's Image |
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23 | (3) |
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26 | (1) |
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The Mystery and Reality of Sin |
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27 | (3) |
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30 | (2) |
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Jesus: God's Desire for Immersion in Humanity |
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32 | (2) |
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34 | (4) |
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Biblical Confrontation and Accountability |
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38 | (13) |
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Biblical Excuses to Avoid Confrontation |
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38 | (5) |
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Confrontation as the Appropriate Response |
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43 | (3) |
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46 | (2) |
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48 | (3) |
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The Psychology and Theology of Confrontation |
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51 | (15) |
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The Devaluing and Revaluing of Human Emotions |
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51 | (1) |
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From a Culture of Avoidance and Alienation to a Culture of Embrace and Empathy |
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52 | (4) |
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Painful Emotions and the Power of Love |
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56 | (2) |
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Confrontation as Accurate Empathic Action |
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58 | (3) |
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61 | (1) |
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A Guide to Effective Confrontation |
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61 | (5) |
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Biblical Insights into Repentance and Accountability |
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66 | (12) |
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Repentance, a Prerequisite for Forgiveness |
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66 | (2) |
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Repentance, a Changed Understanding |
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68 | (6) |
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Distinguishing Genuine from Contrived Repentance |
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74 | (2) |
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76 | (2) |
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Theological and Psychological Insights into Repentance |
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78 | (14) |
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The Repentance-Sensitive Personality |
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79 | (3) |
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82 | (3) |
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The Repentant Steven and the Forgiving Joseph |
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85 | (3) |
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88 | (4) |
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Biblical Insights into the Transferal of Responsibility and Release |
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92 | (10) |
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Transferal of Responsibility |
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92 | (2) |
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Biblical Transferal, Not Psychological Transference |
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94 | (1) |
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Biblical Transferal, Interpersonal and Not Intrapsychic |
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95 | (1) |
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Biblical Transferal A Changed Relationship |
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96 | (2) |
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Appropriate Situations for Transferal |
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98 | (2) |
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100 | (2) |
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The Grace and Burden of Unfinished Business |
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102 | (10) |
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Purgatory Revisited: A Special Kind of Hope |
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102 | (4) |
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106 | (2) |
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108 | (2) |
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110 | (2) |
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112 | (12) |
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The Sabotaged Forgiveness Exchange: An Unexpected Healing |
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112 | (3) |
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The Stalled Forgiveness Exchange: Hope against Hope |
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115 | (4) |
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The Successful Forgiveness Exchange: Can You Drink the Cup? |
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119 | (3) |
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122 | (2) |
Bibliography |
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